Reader Question:

Dear Neale...What do you believe happens when a person or soul commits suicide? ...Have heard it's the only unforgivable sin...Really like to know if someone is that unhappy here if they will be punished. Is our God that unforgiving? Becky.

Neale Responds

My dear Becky...A very complete answer to your question has been given us in the extraordinary book HOME WITH GOD in a Life That Never Ends. I encourage you with all my heart to read that if you are truly wanting a fu...

Reader Question:

Dear Neale... I am new to CwG, having read Book 1 twice. I am relieved, excited, and grateful for the beautiful conversations. In light of that, how do I come to terms with the fact that my husband is not relieved, excited, and/or grateful as he has no interest in reading them? I so want to share this with someone--it would be nice if it was him. How do I honor his path? I'm not sure it is appropriate to "pray him into it," is it? It is also difficult to discuss this with fri...

Reader Question:

I'm at a low point in my life right now. I seem to be paralyzed in my fear. Nothing I try to do is working for me. How does one have faith, when nothing seems to be working? I have read and re-read your book, Conversations with God. I love your book.

I believe everything God has said to you. I am trying to change my thoughts to positive thoughts, but my fears and doubts get in the way. I tried to write to God on paper, but He seems silent to me. Yet I know He is talking to ...

Reader Question:

Dear Neale......I read somewhere in the CWG books about something called The Be-Do-Have Paradigm. Can you explain to me what this is? I have a feeling that it is important, but I might have glanced over it when I first read about it, and now I can't find it in my CWG books. I've been searching and can't seem to locate it in the dialogue.

Neale Responds

The "Be-Do-Have Paradigm" is a way of looking at life. It is nothing more or less than that. Yet this way of looking at ...

Reader Question:

Dear Neale.....I was reading the CWG books on fear and ridding fear. And it said that you should just "decide" not to have the fear anymore but, could you explain how you "decide" not to have fear? Especially, cos some people can get really scared and have panic attacks and that. I don't understand how you can let go like that. Haven't some people tried and tried to decide to be fearless but failed? So could you expand on deciding to let go of fear? Does the CWG material ment...

Reader Question:

Dear Neale....I do not know my "purpose" in life, and it is driving me crazy. What am I "supposed" to be doing here? What is the point of all this? I've been trying to figure this out since I was 21. Now I'm 36 and am no closer than I was before. I mean, I know it can't just be about "work" (I have a pretty decent job), so what is it about?


Thanks for giving me your (and CWG's) "take" on this...

Love, Janette G

Neale Responds

Well, my friend, your question could not ...

Reader Question:

Dear Neale....I have a question that concerns consequences or punishment. I read in your books that punishments are not the natural (best) way for someone to experience a consequence of a crime that a person committed. That it will not do any good to anyone to punish someone by the law (our own made up consequences).
 
I can understand that in many of the cases, but what happens if a person could be very dangerous to others during the time when he waits to experience the nat...

Reader Question:

Dear Neale...My fiance (This is Neale writing in parentheses...I'm going to use the fictitious name "James" here in this letter...) lost his brother at 18 (accidental gunshot). James has been grieving for 18 years and is still full of rage and resentment at the lost. He is happy for his brother at his release from this life, but he is still angry at not having his brother to share his life with. What can I say to help James be free of his anger and realize the peace, love and...

Reader Question:

Dear Neale...Why can't everyone have their own "conversation with God," just the way you did? If this is so easy, why doesn't everyone do it? Sorry if I sound like a skeptic, but...

Pamela L., Indianapolis, Indiana

Neale Responds

My Dear Pamela...it is very okay even if you are a "skeptic." I ask no one to accept my experience without looking into it deeply. Here is one problem I see that stops people from having their own Conversation with God...

We have apparently d...

Reader Question:

Dear Neale....I was wondering about one thing. In higher level of our selves we choose how we are going to die. There is nothing that is done here on earth that is wrong or not in the soul's interest. Everything is like it supposed to be.

One thing that is troubling me with that is: Why is the soul still choosing to die, for instance, a horrible death. Why is a higher level of ourselves choosing conflict and misery?

And more importantly, when will it stop choosing these t...